I sleep on the downstairs couch more often than I sleep with my husband.
It's not that I don't love my husband. It's not that I don't want to sleep next to my life partner. The answer is complex:
BUT! Fucking Hell! I am not 80 years old.
Then, yesterday, I heard of a study that 73 percent of 60-80 year olds are having sex and even more are masturbating and, of those active, most were having sex 2-3 times a month. Fucking bloody hell. I am worse than an eighty year old. I am at a loss as to what to do.